Wednesday, June 11, 2025
Monday, June 9, 2025
Movies -- A Recap -- Part XLIV -- Great Styling
If you're looking for a bathed-in-the-era love story, try If Beale Street Could Talk. It's simultaneously sad and uplifting, but through it all is a beautiful portrait of life and love. Two young people fall in love. She gets pregnant. He's accused of a crime he didn't commit. But they continue to love each other and their families mostly support them. It's not all sunshine and roses, but that's the gist of it; it's a beautiful portrait of life. And, set in 1970s New York, the city as a backdrop is its own beautiful character and the outfits are nothing to sneeze at either.
The casting of The Sting is excellent, led by Robert Redford and Paul Newman. They play two grifters and con men, trying to make a quick buck by scamming whomever happens to cross their paths. It's set in the 1930s, so the clothing and set design are Depression-era chic. It's not what one might call the best era in American history, but nonetheless it did have a particular design of its own.The problem with Risky Business is that it's mostly known for its one scene; you know the one. And, let's be clear, it's a great scene. The reason it's a bummer is because there's so much other good stuff -- besides just pantsless dancing -- in the movie in terms of style. This gem is set in early 1980s Chicago, and the clothes, hair, and cars are everything you could hope for from that time. The plot is entirely ridiculous, basically a rich kid behaving badly, but if you can suffer through one bad decision after another, it'll take you unapologetically back to 1983.
Saturday, June 7, 2025
Movies -- A Recap -- Part XLIII -- War or War-Adjacent Stories
The Zookeeper's Wife follows a Warsaw couple through WWII as they use their zoo to guide Jews fleeing the Nazi occupation of Poland, while also trying to care for the animals who remain. The couple's faith is tested as Jan leaves his wife at the zoo to join the Warsaw uprising. I found the actors' accents distracting at times as they came in and out, but it was also nice that some of the cast were German or Polish, which mitigated that in some scenes.
I stumbled upon The Ministry of Ungentlemanly Warfare on an airplane (I saw someone else watching it and had to figure out what it was!) and boy, was it a trip - and based on a true story! It's a little bit hard to comprehend something described as an "action comedy war film," until you realize that it's also a Guy Ritchie film; then somehow it all makes sense. A group of undercover renegade British soldiers aboard a fishing boat set about planning and executing an attack on a German resupply base. Chaos ensues. I didn't recognize a lot of the cast, but thought they were well-selected for their roles.
The critical reviews for All Quiet on the Western Front were what got my attention. I had read the book a couple of times and may not have bothered with the movie if it had not been so well received. (I have not seen either of the other two film adaptations, done in 1930 and 1979.) The story more or less follows the book: a young, idealistic German boy signs up to fight for the fatherland. He quickly realizes that war is not what he imagined. It's a dark, sad story; WWI may have been the worst kind of hell. I would recommend steering clear of this one if you find yourself lacking the stomach for gore; "visceral" is a good word to describe it. But other than that I'll leave it to you to decide whether it stands up to the hype.As you know, I adore Matt Damon. The Good Shepherd is one of those sprawling spy stories (in this case, mostly fictionalized) that covers decades of someone's life - in part because the things that happened to them all those years ago shaped who they are and how they got here, and in part because the art of good spycraft often unfolds over years or decades. Matt Damon plays Edward Wilson, and we follow him all the way from his days at Yale to his ascension to the highest rungs of the CIA. It's a long, slow, character-builder, but I was entertained the whole time not only by Matt's lovely face, but also by the historical clothes and styling, as well as the scenes set in England. If I ever thought, though, that I wanted to be in the CIA, this movie is a good reminder that it would be a terrifying way to live.Ahh, what a classic G.I. Jane has become for me. When I want to watch something that's not a war movie but has heavy military presence, it's always fun to watch Demi Moore become the world's most badass lady. And, though I didn't begin to like Viggo Mortensen until he transformed himself into Aragorn (which is really the version of him that I like most), he does a nice turn as Master Chief in this film.
Wednesday, June 4, 2025
Movies -- A Recap -- Part XLII -- Tough Watches
Monster's Ball is an old one. It stars Halle Berry and Billy Bob Thornton as troubled souls who find comfort in each other, against all odds and and against logic. I'm not sure you can call them themes, but the movie touches on racism, crime and capital punishment, suicide, economic struggles, and related issues. There is so much tragedy in this movie. One thing I really enjoyed was that there were all sorts of little quirks that were never explained, like why Billy Bob Thornton's character always at his chocolate ice cream with a plastic spoon; they were hints that there was a lot more to these characters than the viewer ever saw.I wasn't sure whether or not to include The Gift in this category, as it's a much more traditional suspense-thriller than seems like would befit the theme. But when I think back on the movie, I'm still creeped out by Joel Edgerton's character and the chaos he produces in the lives of and relationship between the other leads. These sorts of stories, full of psychological attacks and gaslighting that cause one to question their own sanity, coupled with the sort of terror felt mostly (though not exclusively) by women, disturb me in the most primordial parts of my brain. They get into my psyche in a way that blood-and-gore horror simply does not do. Then there are the questions of coercive control within the relationship, which is a whole other issue. So I can't say I recommend this one, exactly, but it sure does accomplish its goal and -- as far as this category is concerned -- remind me about the evil that can be out there.
Monday, June 2, 2025
Movies -- A Recap -- Part XLI -- Foreign Stories
Brooklyn is only half-set in another country -- this time, Ireland -- but the central geographic tension in the story is about longing for home, whether it be there or in Brooklyn. Eilis (played by ) left her small town in Ireland in search of a better life in Brooklyn. She misses home desperately, but when she goes back to visit her old-fashioned town in County Wexford, finds herself missing her new home and new life in the more modern New York. The cinematography is stunning; pay special attention to the use of color depending on location and mood. Who better to play Eilis than Saoirse Ronan, who was born in New York to Irish parents, but taken back to Ireland at age three to grow up?While we're on the subject of the relationship between the Emerald Isle and America, you might check out The Problem With People. Brooklyn is the better of the two films, but if you want something more comedic, you can watch two estranged cousins (played by Paul Reiser and Colm Meaney) try to mend fences, their dying patriarch's final wish. Things seem to be going well, until they aren't. Lovely scenery and good music, of course!
Anatomy of a Fall is set in the French Alps. When a man is found dead outside his home by his visually-impaired son, the investigation begins. Was he pushed from the balcony by his frustrated wife? Did he fall accidentally? Was it a suicidal leap? The only person who may know the truth is the son, but what can he really be relied on to "know," impressionable as he is due to his age and disability? I love an unreliable narrator, and this movie has them in spades. I'm including Transsiberian here despite the fact that the main characters are American. My exception is because the film takes place on and near a train from Beijing to Moscow, which is a most Eur-Asian method of travel. Under the influence of some mysterious fellow travelers (including Kate Mara, whom I adore), the Americans get tied up in criminal behavior they never intended. It's a classic mystery, carried on the shoulders of Emily Mortimer, one of the Americans (who, in actuality, is English).
Thursday, May 29, 2025
Movies -- A Recap -- Part XL -- Kids Movies (or are they?)
Is it the case that movies for kids are just better than movies for adults, or is my chosen selection of kids movies better, and there are some really bad ones out there that I'm just not seeing. Open to your thoughts.
Y'all remember Labyrinth, right? Well, I can confidently say that it is at least as weird as you remember it being, if not weirder. As a kid I remember thinking that the music was the strange part of the whole experience; as an adult, it felt very much the other way around. (Fun fact:it was directed by Jim Henson. Yes, that Jim Henson.)I watched The Secret Lives of Pets 2 on a plane. As with many sequels, I did not enjoy it as much as the original, but it was still sufficiently entertaining to accomplish the goal of passing the time. Even if I had viewed it elsewhere, I expect I would have found it amusing. (Aside: Pop Culture Happy Hour, my favorite pop culture podcast, did an episode about the best movies to watch on an airplane. One of the panelists recommended kids' movies, which is a recommendation I can get behind: bright colors which show up well on that tiny screen, the plot is easy to understand despite distractions and stuff going on around you, and there will be no embarrassing sex scenes.)
Next up: Inside Out 2.
Tuesday, May 27, 2025
Movies -- A Recap -- Part XXXIX -- Feel-Good Redemption Stories
The list of movies which I have seen an not written about is so long! So many movies, I'll see how many of them I can remember....
Florence Pugh is someone that I am only beginning to know well enough to recognize her face. I first appreciated her talent as part of a two-star cast opposite Morgan Freeman in A Good Person. As a (relatively) young actress able to hold your own against Morgan Freeman, you've got to have some real skill. In A Good Person, she plays a woman who kills some of her fiance's family members in a car accident and suffers serious injuries herself, leading to addiction to painkillers and a reckoning with her fiance's family. It's a lovely look at people who are struggling and a portrait of modern addiction.I watched Sr. not really knowing what to expect. I love Robert Downey, Jr. for reasons I am a little bit hard pressed to explain. But I do. It's right there in his name, "Jr.," that there is a father of the same name, but I had never really thought about it until I heard about this movie. It's a non-traditional biopic, made by the son as he knows his father is dying. It's about their relationship (as you would expect), but also about the father's career and about film-making as an art. It was a beautiful portrait and a sweet homage, though I feel like some of the appreciation of the art was lost on me because I know nothing about Sr.'s career. I didn't know until I was looking into Rams that Sam Neill, probably best known to my generation for his role in Jurassic Park, grew up in New Zealand. The movie is actually set in Australia, and is about a decades-long feud between two brothers who also happen to be neighboring small-town sheep farmers. It's funny (not ha-ha funny) and requires a bit of cultural understanding. I always liked Sam Neill, now even more than previously. Fun fact: this movie is a remake of the original Icelandic version.The Guardian is an appreciation of and homage to the United States Coast Guard rescue swimmers who save troubled boaters, and a look at the toll that work can take on a person and their relationships. The plot is one of those predictable but enjoyable ones. Kevin Costner plays the person he so often - a grumpy old man, once the best in the business, who despite his grizzled exterior has a soft, gooey center.
My boyfriend, Matt Damon, stars in We Bought a Zoo. It's based on a book and a real-life true story of a widower with two kids who, in an act of frustration and desperation, abandons his prior life and buys a broken-down zoo desperately in need of funding and repairs, to say nothing of the crew of misfits who are there keeping it running as best they can. It's a tearjerker and a genuine feel-good story.
Monday, May 26, 2025
Monday, May 19, 2025
What I'm Reading Now -- Chop Fry Watch Learn
Our book club books are exchanged together with a small notebook in which we each write a page or two of our thoughts regarding that particular selection. Normally, I don't read anyone else's comments until after I have read the book and formulated my own thoughts. I was a bit surprised by E's selection because I did not recall her being a big fan of Chinese food, so I went ahead and peeked at her comments. And I was right! She's not a big fan, but had good things to say about the story regardless. I'm diving in with high expectations!
Sunday, May 18, 2025
The Mayor of Casterbridge -- Take 2
I was surprised by how readable The Mayor of Casterbridge was. Often the wordiness of these older books makes them quite tedious to read, but I found this one more delightful than tedious. The writing was detailed in that old-fashioned sort of way, but also amusing and easy to digest. If you, like me, feel as though there are some holes in your education in the classics, I would recommend this as a good place to put a toe back in the water.
It is the story of (you guessed it) the mayor of a British town called Casterbridge. In his youth, he had gotten screaming drunk at a county fair and sold his wife and child to a passing sailor. He regretted his drunken choices and swore off alcohol for 21 years as a result (a vow which he kept). In the meantime, his wife's new husband set sail, and she and the child returned to the town of which the former drunk was now the mayor and most prominent farmer. His past deeds back to haunt him, he falls, step-by-frustrating-step, from grace.
This is one more book I can mark off my 2025 Reading Challenge!
Saturday, April 5, 2025
What I'm Reading Now -- The Mayor of Casterbridge
And so far, this book is surprisingly readable and -- though this word is overused in writing about books -- compelling. It's a book about, in short, a guy who makes a bad mistake early in his life and spends the rest of his life paying for it. Reading it is a little bit like watching a slow motion train wreck; it's horrible and fascinating and I can't look away.
Monday, March 31, 2025
What I Read -- Greyfriars Bobby
Because it's a vintage original, I didn't take it with me on our trip to Cyprus because I didn't want to beat it up any more than necessary. It took me a little while to get back into it when we got home, but once I did I couldn't put it down.
It's the true and very sweet story of a loyal and lovable Skye terrier who, after his master's death, spent every night sleeping on his master's grave in the Greyfriars churchyard. The neighborhood kids and local barkeep kept an eye on him, and he loved them back, but his loyalty was always to his deceased master.
If you like a dog story, this is a delightful read. It would be a fairly short read too, but for the fact that much of it is written in Scottish dialect which takes a bit of getting used to to decipher.
And with that, I'm up 7 of my 12 books for 2024!
Sunday, March 30, 2025
What I Read -- Since We Fell
But, I was out in Colorado and found a copy of Since We Fell waiting for a good home. So, I picked it up.
If you just need to turn pages, this book will do it. But as Dennis Lehane books go, it wasn't Mystic River. Since We Fell opens with the main character shooting her husband. Then we flash back to how she got to that point. Someone dying is always a good hook. And some of the justification that followed made sense, but then at some point -- as is often the case in books with convoluted plots -- it just goes a bit off the rails.
What's great about a found book is that you can so easily pay it forward just by leaving it somewhere. The Durango airport has a bookshelf sponsored by the local library -- by now I'm sure that the initial library donation of books has been fully turned over by travelers (including myself) -- where I left this when I was finished with it.
If you happen to find yourself in Durango and want a page-turner, maybe it'll still be there for you!
Saturday, March 29, 2025
What I Read -- Faster: How a Jewish Driver, an American Heiress, and a Legendary Car Beat Hitler’s Best
For anyone interested in the history of auto racing, it's a good read. Though I like particular modern auto racing (namely, Formula 1), I haven't spent much (if any) time with the history of the sport. Faster gives a lot of color and background which I knew nothing about. The "American Heiress" referenced in the subtitle refers to Lucy Schell, whom I am now very interested to learn more about. Maybe she will be the biography I write!
And, it was recommended by a friend of mine, so now we have something we can chat about next time we see each other.
Tuesday, March 25, 2025
Monday, January 13, 2025
What I Read -- Murder on the Oceanic
I'm also counting this one for my 2025 Reading Challenge. The July theme is "beach read." Though it was nowhere near July when I read this in January, I was staying at a hotel with a beachfront view, so I'm giving myself a pass in terms of the calendar.
As I recently noted, I have been reading more murder mysteries lately. In addition to this, I've been through By a Spider's Thread, A Sudden Death in Cyprus, and Listen for the Lie, just in the last year. That may not sound like a lot, but given that it probably matches the number I've read in the entire previous decade before last year, it actually is quite an increase.
Murder on the Oceanic is the seventh in a series of set-on-fancy-luxury-liner mysteries. As I understand it, the husband-and-wife detectives carry through the series, but as with By a Spider's Thread, the stories themselves stand independently.
I found this one to be better written than A Sudden Death in Cyprus, and I very much enjoyed the constant tips of the hat to highfalutin turn-of-the-last-century morals, especially amongst the British characters. It's all the same oh-no-she-didn't shock and horror that I love about Downton Abbey. And really, with these books, it isn't so much about the plot as it is about the trappings, isn't it?
Thursday, January 9, 2025
What I Read -- By a Spider's Thread
L happened to have two copies of By a Spider's Thread on her bookshelf, so she gave me one to get me started. It is the eighth book in the series about this particular detective, but as these things go, there is enough background provided in each book that it really doesn't matter whether you've read the others or not. They stand on their own just fine.
In case you're interested in the details of this particular mystery, it involves a wife who runs away from her husband, taking their two kids. The husband hires our main character, Tess, who is working as a private detective, to track down his missing family.
It's not literature. But it is a book, and sometimes it's nice just to keep turning the pages. And - for what it's worth - much of what she says about working through problems while spending quiet mornings on the water is quite true.
Wednesday, January 8, 2025
What I Read -- My World
One of them was My World, by Jonny Wilkinson. I'm also counting this one as my January book for the 2025 Reading Challenge - a book you picked up because of its cover. The edition that was at the hotel was the original hardcover (whose picture is included here), and really, how could I not pick up a book with my first rugby crush's face on it?
The book itself was a mixed bag. The play-by-play of the various rugby matches that he recounts was candy for me but would be extremely tedious to someone who is not interested in the sport. It suffers from the same thing that many early-in-life-successes suffers from, causing me to ask, "you're twenty-four, what do you know about life?" This is tempered somewhat by the last portion of the book which looks forward much more than backward.
It's a quick read full of fantastic pictures of my boy Jonny, including - you guessed it -- the front cover.
Tuesday, January 7, 2025
What I Read -- The Cyprus Collection
But about the book: the first slightly-more-than-half provides an extensive if somewhat selective history of the island, with the last several chapters being close-ups on a few of the tourist areas. I skipped a few of those chapters which related to areas now in Turkish Cyprus, since we weren't going there, but poked through everything that was in the southern part of the island. Always fun.
His comments and descriptions were observant, often biting, and quite amusing for me as a reader. Here are a few of my favorites:
In describing the "takeover" of Cyprus by the French, under Guy de Lusignan, from the British, under Richard the Lionheart:
"At this juncture, Guy de Lusignan, who had lost his kingdom of Jerusalem, comes into the picture. ... Contemporary opinion was severe on the handsome Guy, to some extent, no doubt, because of the loss of his kingdom. In spite of these criticisms on his character it appears that he was possessed of courage if lacking in ability."
On the Cypriot attempt to repel the Egyptian invasion in 1426:
"Difficulties suggesting hurry and bad organization began at once. Trumpets had been forgotten, with resultant difficulty in conveying orders, and there was a great shortage of wine that led to a mutinous uproar and rioting around the tower where the king was lodged and the wine stored." Really, who can be bothered with the Egyptians under such circumstances?
On the capital city of Nicosia:
"Approximately in the centre of the Plain of Messaoria stands Nicosia, the capital, girt with its massive circle of fortifications about 1,500 yards in diameter and 2-2/3 miles in circumference. The little city fills this space closely with a compact network of streets that have a tendency to lead nowhere in particular and subtly to bring the stranger out towards the ramparts when he is endeavoring to reach the centre. ... Altogether twelve breaches [of the city wall] have been [intentionally] made in recent times, each provided with a broad earthen embankment to carry the road across the ditch, that averages about 350 feet in width. Some of these openings being quite unnecessary, the recklessness that authorized them was deplorable, for the Renaissance character that Nicosia bore externally until comparatively recent years has been sadly weakened."
Monday, January 6, 2025
2025 Reading Challenge
K and I are again embarking on an annual reading challenge. This year's selections are:
January: a book you first picked up because of the cover
My World, by Jonny Wilkinson
February: a book about mental health
Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking, by Susan Cain
March: a short story collection
In the Gloaming, by Alice Elliott Dark
April: a book published in the year you were born
The Mayor of Casterbridge, by Thomas Hardy
May: a sequel
March, by Geraldine Brooks
June: something funny
Twas the Nightshift Before Christmas, by Adam Kay
July: a beach read
Murder on the Oceanic, by Edward Marston
August: a re-read
Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End, by Atul Gawande
September: a book with "secret" in the title
The Many Lives & Secret Sorrows of Josephine B., by Sandra Gulland
October: a book involving magic, witches, vampires, sorcery, or the like
Unfinished Tales of Numenor and Middle-Earth, by J.R.R. Tolkien
November: something containing recipes
On Rue Tatin: Living and Cooking in a French Town, by Susan Herman Loomis
December: something told from the point of view of the villain or bad guy
The Meaning of Night, by Michael Cox
Some of these may require some additional explanation, and I will try to provide that as I write about each individual book.
Usual rules apply (to the extent possible):
1. It has to be a book I already own;
2. It has to be a book I have not read yet (or at least haven't finished yet);
3.
Though I can go out of order, some of the months are clearly themed
(e.g., July, October), so I will try to read those books at
least close to the month they are selected for; and
4. If I want to include a book I've already listed but didn't read, that's okay.
How will I do this year?
Sunday, January 5, 2025
Christmas Recap
My holidays were a little bit non-traditional this year, but I managed to squeeze in a good bit of celebration regardless.
We started out down in Florida with K, where, shortly after Thanksgiving, we undertook the annual favorite task of decorating for Christmas. What's not to love about this? It happens early, it sets the scene, and there's still so much anticipation about all the fun to come! Plus, the trouble of putting all this stuff away again is a problem for your future self -- or in this particular case, your future sister. And, true to form, she put away all but one forgotten decoration: the ornaments that I had hung from the dining room light fixture!
Both while we were doing that and also sprinkled throughout our lengthy stay in Florida we watched several Hallmark-type, holiday-themed rom-coms whose names were generic enough to be forgotten before the movie was over. I caught Love Actually on our flight to Cyprus, and one of our hotels seemed to have movies primarily in German, so we watched portions of The Santa Clause and The Santa Clause 2 and practiced our deutsch. Plus we found some more Hallmark-style movies both in English and other languages.
Cyrpus has a few towns known for their Christmas markets, and S planned our travels specifically so we would be in or near Agros and Kyperounta in the run-up to Christmas, so we made the most we could out of the markets in those towns. The best part -- the Christmas train pulled through the town center of Agros by a tractor! (Last year in Ireland, we stumbled onto a 600-odd tractor run on Christmas day. Are we developing a Christmas tradition of tractors, however odd that may be?!) We also happened upon similar markets in Pano Lefkara (traditional) and Larnaca (the big city version).
For our Christmas feast, not quite knowing what would be available to tourists, we opted to attend the ultra-fancy Christmas Eve dinner at our ultra-fancy hotel in Paphos. We had a grand time! The spread was out of this world (probably the most extensive I have seen), there was live music during cocktail hour beforehand and in the ballroom as dinner trailed off, Christmas crackers -- silly though they may be -- topped each table, and the hotel was decorated top to bottom in Christmas decor.
Speaking of which, pretty much everything in Cyprus was decorated for the holiday. Pubs, restaurants, shops -- everywhere you looked! The hotels especially, probably knowing they're catering to a bunch of people who don't get to put up their own decorations at home, were dressed to the nines.
We rented a car for our journey about Cyprus -- a surprisingly reliable little Kia Rio, which can go farther than one might think with the gas light on (and that goodness for that!) -- and S indulged me in my Christmas playlist all I wanted as we cruised around.
And, now that we've returned home, we will collect our packages and have our own little delayed Christmas morning on this very snowy day here at home!
Saturday, January 4, 2025
Thursday, January 2, 2025
2024 Reading Challenge Recap
Last year started out strong for my reading challenge, but ended poorly. Here's the lowdown on how I did:
January: a book with a one-word title
Andorra, by Peter Cameron
READ
February: a book based on a real event
Isaac's Storm: A Man, a Time, and the Deadliest Storm in History, by Erik Larson
READ
March: a book that will stretch you
Love Her Wild, by Atticus
READ
April: a book recommended by a friend
Faster, by Neal Bascomb
IN PROGRESS
May: a book your mom loves
Don't Let's Go to the Dogs Tonight, by Alexandra Fuller
DID NOT BEGIN
June: a book about hiking/road tripping
The Ultimate Journey: Canada to Mexico Down the Continental Divide, by Eric and Tim Ryback
READ
July: a book about books
The Library Book, by Susan Orlean
DID NOT BEGIN
August: a book that has a cover you love
Greyfriars Bobby, by Eleanore Atkinson
IN PROGRESS
September: a book set in an intriguing city
Tangerine, by Christine Mangan
DID NOT BEGIN
October: a used book
One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, by Ken Kesey
DID NOT BEGIN
November: a book with an ugly cover
The Hitch Hiker's Guide to the Galaxy, by Douglas Adams
READ (but earlier in the year, out of order)
December: a book with a number in the title
Three Day Road, by Joseph Boyden
DID NOT BEGIN
All in all, that's a success rate of 50%, if I could both of the partially-read books as half credit. Not one of my better years. But, it is what it is. My Goodreads page will reflect that I read several books which weren't part of my reading challenge, so if I were to give myself credit for those as well, I would be up to 17 books for the year, or a success rate of 142%. So, that's something, right?