Wednesday, July 3, 2019

Goals 2019 -- May Update


Here's K!
Well, here’s my May update, finally! I find it a little ironic that in the month, long, long ago, where we were supposed to clean out our inboxes, I was remiss in completing my electronic duty of submitting my update! The digital activity that was intended, at least in my mind, to help me be more efficient and responsive to the necessary information that was coming in obviously did not translate, in this instance, in the way that I had hoped.
When M and I talked about doing a “digital cleanup,” my goals were mainly to clean out my email inboxes and to unsubscribe from the million and one junk mails (is that a word?) that I received every day. They came in because I once said I was interested or I once purchased something, but I never looked at them. Instead, I just gave myself carpel tunnel as I swiped left to delete them. I was able to accomplish these two tasks within the first few days of our endeavor, which made me feel quite accomplished. I cleaned out every inbox that I have, forwarded one account that I don’t want to keep checking to another so that I would be sure not to miss anything, decided to begin using that one account over the other (don’t ask why that took so long…), and gleefully unsubscribed to much of the junk mail that I receive. This is a process that needs a repeat as culling the accounts that you want to receive things from and the ones that you don’t sometimes takes a few passes.
As far as the results of this effort are concerned, I am still burdened by more email than I care to receive, but I think that’s the curse of the modern era. On the occasions where I had the opportunity to open my email in front of other people (mostly at work), I did receive several compliments on the tidiness of my email inbox. And, when we were in the process of interviewing new faculty, one candidate opened his email on the projector to find his presentation, and his email alerted him to the nearly 3200 unread emails in his account. In this moment, I experienced anxiety for him and wanted to help him sort through his email to whittle that number to a more reasonable double-digit one. Before this, I would have identified with him because there is always a point, as the junk comes in, where I used to give into the deluge and allow myself to drown in email. But, this small act of digital cleanup has been one that's made a big difference for me.
Going forward, I hope to keep my work inbox cleared out so that it can do double duty as a “to do” list and as a way to ensure that I try to focus on responding to the emails that I can right as they come in. I also plan to find myself on a couch with some bad television on in the background unsubscribing from more email lists in the not-too-distant future as this digital effort really was one that made me feel a little more in control of my life.


Tuesday, July 2, 2019

Goals 2019 -- July Edition (Update)

Here's K!

I’m on board with this goal for many reasons. First, the last time my dog visited his vet, he was embarrassed to find out that he had gained five pounds! He asked if we could go on more walks to get back down to his fighting weight, so now I can oblige. Second, I’ll be heading out on this aforementioned cruise, and lest I be embarrassed to find out how many pounds I have gained upon my return, I will use this to try to keep myself at my own fighting weight, and also to keep myself awake. Third, fresh air. Fourth, podcasts. Fifth, summer. Sixth, the television I shouldn’t be watching. Seventh, the book I should be reading. Eighth, why not?  And, I’m sure I’ll find the ninth and tenth reasons in the actual undertaking of this endeavor.

Monday, July 1, 2019

Goals 2019 -- July Edition

Walking.  It seems like such a simple thing.  We do it all the time.  We walk around the house; we walk from the car to the store and back; we walk to the mailbox.

But we will walk deliberately this month.  After lunch or after dinner, or even some other time if that's the only time we can fit it in.  A dog may be involved.  Or not.  But it will be a thoughtful, purposeful walk, with the purpose being the walk itself, and not as a means to something else.

Just by coincidence, this story was on NPR this morning!  Hopefully we can keep this in mind all month. As with yoga back in January, we're shooting for 25 days of walking.

Sunday, June 30, 2019

Goals 2019 -- June Recap

Five new things doesn't seem like a lot. But when you need to fit them in between all the obligations of daily living, it can be hard!  Which is my not-so-subtle way of telling you that I didn't quite get it done.  But it wasn't a total failure either!  Here's my list:
1. I tried a case in Lincoln County (to excellent effect!)
2. I got recognized as a volunteer with one of the organizations I've been working with at their quarterly gathering
3. I changed the oil in our daily driver
4. I walked in a Pride parade
5. We decided to take scuba lessons with some friends (although the lessons themselves haven't happened yet).

The last one, obviously, is questionable.  How many well-intentioned plans never come to fruition?  But what can you do?  There's only so much time in 30 days.   43,200 minutes, to be not-quite-exact.  Which seems like a lot when I say it that way; let's go back to calling it 30 days.

I had lots of other ideas, but as with the scuba, they just didn't happen.  My rowing partner wanted to learn to ride a unicycle, but I don't know where you can rent one.  I wanted to go mountain biking on a trail I has never been on before, but that requires that it stop raining.  There was a new circus in town (in addition to St. Louis's own Circus Flora) but they were only here for a weekend and I had visitors that weekend.

Even though I only got four-and-a-half things accomplished, it was a good exercise in thinking outside the box!

Wednesday, June 19, 2019

Rigoletto

Just a few days after The Marriage of Figaro, it was time for my second opera.  Up next was Rigoletto, or as S liked to call it, Rigatoni.

Speaking of which, this was going to be our Italian-themed food night.  However, everything had been such a whirlwind that I really didn't have a chance to even go shopping for my menu, let along make it.  Instead, we had some good ol' Sauce on the Side (calzones are Italian!) before heading off to the opera in a torrential downpour.

It was not quite the comedic who-loves-who spectacle that Figaro was.  Somehow I think I have perhaps never seen Rigoletto before -- which seems astonishing to me.  But the story sure didn't sound familiar to me.  Boy, is it dark.

Rigoletto is the town jester.  The duke is a womanizer, who falls in lust with Rigoletto's overprotected daughter Gilda.  Through a series of machinations, Gilda believes she loves the duke as well.  Rigoletto is able to secret her away from the duke again, and thinks that he can convince her that she does not love the duke after all.  That does not quite work out the way he planned, and the curse he has been running from comes true in the end.

Monday, June 17, 2019

The Marriage of Figaro + E's visit

The symphony is over, which means it's opera season!  E arrived on Thursday afternoon, and we went to dinner that evening at Savage, which is run by a friend of E's.  She had set us up with a 12-course tasting menu for the evening, and S and I topped it off with the drink pairings.  Every course was an interesting preparation of whatever the subject dish was.  Though I didn't love every one, every one was a curiosity and an adventure.  Perhaps my favorite thing about about the restaurant, though, was the setup.




It's a small space, with an equally small kitchen in the center of the theater-in-the-round seating arrangement.  Watching the staff prepare each plate is as much fun as experiencing the concoctions they place in front of you.  I liked the design and decor very much, but -- as with most restaurants -- the music could have been quieter.

The following day, E was a trooper and prepared our whole meal for the opera!  Though The Marriage of Figaro is in Italian, it is set in Spain.  Accordingly, our Spanish-inspired meal consisted of grape and manchego skewers, two types of empanadas (sweet potato and lentil, and gouda and onion), flan, and non-alcoholic sangria.  The empanada recipes I had found were a little lackluster (no fault of E's), but the leftovers were sufficiently perked up with a quick batch of chimichurri sauce.


The show was a long one -- four acts with an intermission in the middle.  As a whole, the voices were impressive, the sets were well-suited, and the performance was entertaining.  It was a long evening, but a lovely one!

Thanks, E, for a lovely visit!

Saturday, June 15, 2019

World Taxidermy Championships

Did you know that the World Taxidermy and Fish Carving Championships is a thing?

I did, but only because I learned about it at SLIFF a few years ago.  Mickey's Pets was a short doc about a girl who enters the championship and has to taxidermy a peacock.  The year the movie was made, the championships were in Peoria, Illinois, which itself isn't too far from StL.

The event looked like a fun thing to go see, and for the last couple of years it's been in Springfield, Missouri.  This year, we made it down!

The drive there was a bit hairy, with some crazy storms rolling through the area.  Plus, the quantity of deceased and partially decomposed armadillos was out of control.  I had heard they were moving north -- we even killed one that was in our yard -- but I had no idea they were movin' on up in such force.  It's an invading army of armadillos!

We stopped for dinner at Smoky J's in Marshfield, Missouri, and each got pizzas.  They were not the best pizzas ever, but they were decent, and after a rough drive they were everything we hoped for.  The beer choices were limited, and we opted for Bud Light from a kegerator.  That would have been exactly as satisfying as one would expect a Bud Light from a kegerator to be -- if our waitress had ever served one before.  Nevertheless, in a funny way it added to the charm of a small town pizza joint en route to a taxidermy show.

We stayed the night in our camper in Marshfield, and headed into Springfield for breakfast in the morning.  We had been to The Aviary before -- when we were in Springfield for WhiskeyFest, and again, it did not disappoint.

The taxidermy show was totally worth the trip.  We all watch the Olympics or the World Series or the Stanley Cup or various other championship events with a passing admiration for the people participating in the subject event.  The awesome thing about the taxidermy champs was this: the judging had happened only the day before, and the judges will talk each participant through their score.  Presumably, this is so they can improve in coming years.  For the visiting public, what this means is that we get to hear a little snipped of the scoring recap as we tour the floor.  "Do you see how there's a little tool mark here on the eyelid?  That should have been corrected with a soft paintbrush before the final display?"  Or "see this line on the fish here?  That should be raised a bit.  You need to sand in this direction, then wet the tip of your pinky finger and run it in the opposite direction to enlarge the grain of the wood."  What?!?

Yes.  It's that detailed.  Here are some of the favorites:

 Catfish

 This was a super neat one.  The artist had found a partial lion hide and turned it into sort of a melting lion, symbolic of the loss of habitat.


 Look at the detail of this cape buffalo eating grass!

Cuttlefish

My new friend the tiger

This one is neat -- propped up on his tail!

The spit trail left behind by this buffalo's tongue -- another impressive detail.

A binturong -- they do not smell like Frito's when they are stuffed.

Who knew they could taxidermy these things?

This one blew my mind.  Since 1940, it has been illegal to "take, possess, sell, purchase, barter, offer to sell, purchase or barter, transport, export or import, at any time or any manner, any bald eagle ..., alive or dead, or any part, nest, or egg thereof."  (This was expanded to include golden eagles in 1962.)  Seeing this blew my mind.  There are some exceptions in the acts, and the back of the base for this beast had a big Ziploc bag taped to it that said "LEGAL PAPERS."  All I wanted to do was open it and find out what the deal was, but S made sure I was escorted to another room before I could get in trouble.

The drive home from Springfield takes you past some of Missouri's best tourist traps, and since we had some time, we stopped to enjoy them -- and also watch the Kentucky Derby at the bar in Uranus.


Thursday, June 13, 2019

What I Watched -- A Smorgasbord of Netflix Entertainment


Zombieland was a pick of S's.  I didn't think I was going to like it at all.  It is exactly what you would expect -- the last few people alive in a world dominated by zombies.

It is, however, funnier than I would have expected.  I sat down in front of the TV to do other work, and ended up enjoying it.  Emma Stone is a girl crush of mine, so she always helps, but Woody Harrelson and Jesse Eisenberg both played their roles to a T.

Bottom line: brainless but funny.





The Kindergarten Teacher was a pick of mine.  Maggie Gyllenhaal always does complex stuff, but this one was weirder than most.  She plays -- not surprisingly -- a kindergarten teacher.  She develops an overly close relationship with one of her students who has a penchant for poetry and whose father is questionably interested in his son's abilities.

Bottom line: odd and confusing, but with the heart that Maggie always brings to her work.









I've watched a lot of legit cooking shows.  Nailed It is not that show.  If you need to watch something silly and brainless, but still about cooking, this is the show for you.  All the contestants are total kitchen disasters, and the question is really which one of them is the least bad.  But watching them be so terrible is pretty dang funny!

Tuesday, June 11, 2019

Monday, June 10, 2019

SLSO Show #7

Our last show of the season brought an oldie but goodie back to SLSO.  Leonard Slatkin was the music director of SLSO from 1979 to 1990.  There was no official music director this season, since David Robertson concluded his tenure last year, and Stéphane Denève doesn't officially start as Music Director until the upcoming season.  He was the Music Director Designate this season.

So, to fill some of the gap, Leonard Slatkin came to conduct Leonard Bernstein, among others.  The show started with a new piece, Smothered by Sky, by a young composer named Loren Loiacono.  As with much of contemporary music, I was not a fan.  I appreciate that Slatkin is an advocate of young composers -- even if they're not quite my speed.

Second was Rachmaninoff's Piano Concerto No. 1 in F-sharp minor.  As with so much of Rachmaninoff, it was a lovely (if somewhat long) piece.

Last up was Bernstein's Symphony No. 3, Kaddish.  Here's the problem with Kaddish.  It's a prayer.  Which means it's a Biblical story.  Which means it's really not my thing.  It did have the benefit of being a choral piece, so it gets automatic bonus points for that.

That was our last show -- not my favorite, but not a total bust.